mokuyoubi: (Emokid)
Sorry I have been so absent lately. I've been busy with work, booking my trip, getting ready for graduation, and oh, yeah, with personal drama )

On a more positive note, we have finished planning/booking our trip abroad. We'll be arriving in London on May 13th and in Gothenburg on May 22nd.
Nena!!! Baby!!! Malin!!! I am so excited!!! I wish it was sooner, so I could get my mind off things. Alas. But it is a very full trip. From London we go directly to Sunderland/Newcastle, then to Stockton-on-Tees, where Nena and her hubby live. She's mentioned going to the beach, and Newcastle, which has lots of museums and cool architecture and other fun stuff. Then back to London on the evening of 20th. We'll just be there one day, but Muse has never been, so we're cramming it full of cool things -- Westminster Abbey, Tower of London, Speaker's Corner at Hyde Park, Covent Garden, a Jack the Ripper walk, and a show in the west end in the evening. I'm trying to find this restaurant online, but having no luck, since I don't remember the name. All I know is that it was near Piccadilly Circus, and it was the most delicious pizza ever, and there were no plates--you ate off the tablecloth. And they said it was German food, but IDK.
Anyway, then on to Gothenburg, and man, I am so jazzed about that. I've never been to Sweden, and the city sounds awesome, as do all the things Malin has planned for us...Why don't we leave tomorrow?

Well, at least I have TYV to look forward to later this week. I really don't think I'm going to like the rest of their music any better than what I've already heard, but one can dream, right? At the very least, BAR!!!

So, IDK if I will have anything for BBB this year. Stress has been killing my writing. Basically when I get home, I just want to lie on the couch and watch something mind-numbing and/or entertaining. Recently that has been Greek and The Office. However, I do know *what* I want to write, and actually have an entire outline OMG. It is Brendon/Spencer, Ryan/Jon, and a bit of Frank/Gee. It's a movie au, but I really don't want to give away any more than that...
mokuyoubi: (Kutabare Miyavi)
Okay, I get that people are trying to be, like, socially conscious, or something, and that's fine with me. But I have this problem that no one else seems to *get* I've read several stories where the boys are gung-fucking-ho about making sure there's a condom on the dick, no matter what the situation, no matter how long they've been together or whatever, whenever there is fucking taking place. Fine. The problem is YOU CAN CONTRACT STDs AND HIV THROUGH ORAL SEX, TOO!!! THE RISKS ARE HIGHER WHEN YOU LET THE DUDE COME IN YOUR MOUTH!!!!
Just sucking a cock is bad enough, because any opening in the mouth can lead to contraction of the diseases. I mean *any.* If you brushed your teeth too hard or flossed and cut a gum a little bit and it didn't even hurt, but there was a tiny bit of blood? That? Means that you are vulnerable. What's more, if you *swallow* there are all sorts of ways the disease can find its way into your blood on the way to the stomach--infections of the throat or chest that have led to burst blood vessels, stomach ulcers, or even thinned stomach lining. A recent (even if passed) bronchial infection or cold can be all it takes. Also, any exposure to the mucus membrane--eyes, nose and mouth are all connected.
Seriously, people, what were you taught about safe sex? Condoms *all the time* even during blow jobs, and if you're going down on a chick, dental dams. I mean. Whatever. I've written unsafe sex scenes, and if you're going to do it, fine, but PLEASE! Don't pretend like your guys are all safe and shit if they go from swallowing each other's come and then put on condoms to fuck each other up the ass. Because that is not true.

I'm not saying that it's likely that these boys would contract a disease from one another through oral sex, or that any of them would even have it in the first place. But I'm just so annoyed with this assumption that safe sex is only an issue when the cock is going in an ass or vagina.

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