Those Fabulous Chemical Boys
Oct. 12th, 2010 03:22 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I was gonna bitch about Glee, but I'd rather have this be a happy-making post. So, since I haven't seen this on my flist, I'm assuming you guys haven't heard it. In which case, go now! Listen!
The new (leaked) single, The Only Hope for Me is You
http://www.mediafire.com/?fb8iu8ras669ke6
And while you listen, enjoy the pretty...

plus, behind the scenes of the Na Na Na video:
http://buzzworthy.mtv.com/2010/10/11/behind-the-scenes-video-my-chemical-romances-na-na-na-video
That little girl is so fiercely adorable, and my, but Show Pony is lovely!
My own (slightly positive) thoughts on the whole ladyboy issue behind a
I know a lot of people have been bummed out by this, which is totally understandable, and I'm not trying to say that anyone's feelings are invalid. I know I've recently learned a lot about accepting my privilege and understanding that just because something doesn't bother me doesn't mean it isn't problematic.
However, saying that, I'm going to have to give the boys the benefit of the doubt here. The thing is, while I'm aware that the term 'ladyboy' is used as a pejorative, I know it is also by used by some Thai mtf individuals in the same way that homosexuals in America use the term 'faggot' to describe themselves, or as a term of affection/endearment. (I'm not necessarily saying this is right or wrong. Even as a woman in an 8-year relationship with another woman, I find it problematic that gays and lesbians are given free reign to describe things as "gay" - as in, a synonym for shitty - simply because we are gay. But that is another issue, and I don't want this to post to be about wank.)
Getting back to my original point, as far as we can see, Ladyboy is a friend and ally to the band. Isn't it entirely possible that it is a name that he has chosen for himself? I've seen a few Thai movies where boys refer to themselves or each other as ladyboys without any negative connotation. MCR has, in the past, always been pretty darn good about issues surrounding sexism, racism, and homophobia. Now, if it turns out that they were just being assholes, or trying to be shocking, I have no problem with holding them accountable for their bs.
Also, if someone more learned about kathoey than I do, please let me know. I'm really, really not saying this to offend, and I'm more than happy to learn a new perspective.
ETA: I guess this is all a moot point since Gee said that the character was never supposed to be called/referred to as Ladyboy, so feel free to ignore...
The video will premiere on Thursday at midnight!!
Also, DUDE! My score on THNKS FR TH MMRS was 66,666. I am too amused at that to be annoyed with the fact that I only got 96% -- I got 100% on all the other FOB songs (on singing. on guitar I'm like, 98-99%) but look, the ending is tricky, and apparently all this time I've been singing HARMONY. WTF? I need to sing the melody. I lose.
The new (leaked) single, The Only Hope for Me is You
http://www.mediafire.com/?fb8iu8ras669ke6
And while you listen, enjoy the pretty...

plus, behind the scenes of the Na Na Na video:
http://buzzworthy.mtv.com/2010/10/11/behind-the-scenes-video-my-chemical-romances-na-na-na-video
That little girl is so fiercely adorable, and my, but Show Pony is lovely!
My own (slightly positive) thoughts on the whole ladyboy issue behind a
I know a lot of people have been bummed out by this, which is totally understandable, and I'm not trying to say that anyone's feelings are invalid. I know I've recently learned a lot about accepting my privilege and understanding that just because something doesn't bother me doesn't mean it isn't problematic.
However, saying that, I'm going to have to give the boys the benefit of the doubt here. The thing is, while I'm aware that the term 'ladyboy' is used as a pejorative, I know it is also by used by some Thai mtf individuals in the same way that homosexuals in America use the term 'faggot' to describe themselves, or as a term of affection/endearment. (I'm not necessarily saying this is right or wrong. Even as a woman in an 8-year relationship with another woman, I find it problematic that gays and lesbians are given free reign to describe things as "gay" - as in, a synonym for shitty - simply because we are gay. But that is another issue, and I don't want this to post to be about wank.)
Getting back to my original point, as far as we can see, Ladyboy is a friend and ally to the band. Isn't it entirely possible that it is a name that he has chosen for himself? I've seen a few Thai movies where boys refer to themselves or each other as ladyboys without any negative connotation. MCR has, in the past, always been pretty darn good about issues surrounding sexism, racism, and homophobia. Now, if it turns out that they were just being assholes, or trying to be shocking, I have no problem with holding them accountable for their bs.
Also, if someone more learned about kathoey than I do, please let me know. I'm really, really not saying this to offend, and I'm more than happy to learn a new perspective.
ETA: I guess this is all a moot point since Gee said that the character was never supposed to be called/referred to as Ladyboy, so feel free to ignore...
The video will premiere on Thursday at midnight!!
Also, DUDE! My score on THNKS FR TH MMRS was 66,666. I am too amused at that to be annoyed with the fact that I only got 96% -- I got 100% on all the other FOB songs (on singing. on guitar I'm like, 98-99%) but look, the ending is tricky, and apparently all this time I've been singing HARMONY. WTF? I need to sing the melody. I lose.
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Date: 2010-10-12 07:40 am (UTC)Hello, you, btw. *hugs* How are you?
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Date: 2010-10-12 08:03 am (UTC)Life is very crazy busy right now, but I'm mostly alright. How about you??
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Date: 2010-10-12 08:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-14 09:46 am (UTC)Glad everything else is good!!! :D
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Date: 2010-10-12 07:54 am (UTC)On the Ladyboy thing: http://sg-mcrmy.blogspot.com/2010/09/gerard-way-address-transgender-issues.html
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Date: 2010-10-12 08:02 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-12 01:12 pm (UTC)we just downloaded the two mcr songs last week, and my kids (and we adults) have been having a blast with those. =D
ps, i didn't think the whole ladyboy thing was a big deal, either.
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Date: 2010-10-12 05:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-12 08:49 pm (UTC)The new Guitar Hero: Warriors of Rock comes with I'm Not Okay and Dance Dance, and then I downloaded an FOB track pack for it that has The Take Over the Break's Over, thnks fr th mmrs, and This Ain't a Scene It's an Arms Race. I'm pretty sure I have another FOB song than the ones you listed, but I could be crazy. Then we have She's a Handsome Woman from Panic. I need to get Black Parade now, too. I'm so excited. But yeah, with the GH (I'm not sure if you have any), most of the songs that came with the game, plus any downloaded ones can be imported to any of the other GH titles.
Sorry, I do go on, don't I. And this is for 360, but I'm pretty sure the dls are available for the Wii, too, if you're playing on that.
And, yeah. I try not to take immediate offense to things until I know what's going on (like, I still don't understand why everyone assumes that Bob was kicked out rather than left for personal or health reasons). But unfortunately I've realised that I'm probably too easy going about this sort of thing, and don't always get when things are problematic.
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Date: 2010-10-12 10:49 pm (UTC)yeah, i don't get that, either. most of what i've heard makes it sound like bob left, but people are mad... at the rest of the band? i'm so confused.
also i LOVE bob. i fully support him doing whatever makes him happiest.
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Date: 2010-10-14 08:32 am (UTC)The Bob thing is so confusing! I mean, I love Bob, too. But he's always seemed like a pretty private person, so I don't get why people would automatically assume that no details = horrible break up, rather than no details = respecting Bob's privacy. But then again, bandom in general seem to think they own the right to every aspect of band member's lives, so IDK. And he's working with animals! I imagine he is totally happy with that.
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Date: 2010-10-14 04:11 pm (UTC)the guitar hero thing, though, will probably never happen. we already have rock band, and buying band hero (i'm a drums girl) seems like an unnecessary expense at this point. it sucks that band hero came out about six months after we bought rock band. we would've held out for it.
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Date: 2010-10-12 06:02 pm (UTC)I ADORE HIS PRETTY FAAAAAACE, AAAAAH!
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Date: 2010-10-12 08:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-12 06:10 pm (UTC)I had not picked up on that.
Also, hai. :) I miss you.
What's up?
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Date: 2010-10-12 09:17 pm (UTC)lots of stuff is up right now. so busy, argh. I'll probably be around more after October's over. What's up with you?
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Date: 2010-10-13 06:09 am (UTC)other than that, nothing much. apartment is coming along nicely at last. nearly done with it now and it's pretty awesome.
did you start a new job as well?
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Date: 2010-10-14 09:45 am (UTC)